I understand curiosity. [Much of her life, that not dedicated to teaching, has been fueled by her drive simply to learn.] But you were sure my situation resembles yours before you called, and I find myself doubting you just sought confirmation. What is it you're looking for?

[She is admittedly speculating on his motives a tiny bit, but it's not much of a leap. Maybe if she's lucky, he'll actually give her something with a passing resemblance to a straight answer.]